About
hey there, lovely!
I’m Paula. I’m so glad you’re here!
life designer.
Creative Thinker.
pathfinder & heart healer.
I believe when you bring together the creative and the practical, you get the best life design possible. Advising and guiding smart, creative women in how to design a life that feels like home is why I’m here. Discover true contentment and authentic style.
My Story
I decided I wasn’t going to settle anymore . . .
But it took me a lot of years to get to that moment. I had settled through every decade, letting fear stage manage my life from the wings.
I held myself back from going after my dreams. I denied authentic desires. I did a lot of pretending. And Someday had a prominent place on my calendar.
I’VE LEARNED THERE MAY BE PLOT TWISTS AND SETBACKS, BUT EVERY GOOD STORY HAS A HAPPY ENDING.
Finally, in my fifties, I began to find myself. I’m a very late bloomer. I realized I didn’t have to keep longing for my dreams. I could begin living my dreams.
And then, life went sideways. The life I’d been holding onto wasn’t there anymore.
November 8, 2018, the town I lived in, Paradise, CA, burned to the ground in less than six hours. 18 square miles. 19,000 structures. More than 11,000 homes. In less than six hours. The ferocity was astonishing.
so I fired fear.
I was done with settling. Fear no longer had a hold over me. What, after all, had I been afraid of? Fear had done its best to keep me safe and secure. But it had also kept me from experiencing the thrill of Life. There was nothing left to fear.
It was time to start living the life I felt meant for, to be true to myself, do work I love in the best way possible. I’ve realized it may be the last third of life, but it’s still the middle of the story. The best chapters have yet to be written.
My life didn’t transform overnight. It’s been a journey, and one I’m still on.
I BELIEVE YOU’RE MEANT TO LIVE A LIFE THAT’S ORIGINAL, CREATIVE, AND BEAUTIFUL.
IT’S TIME TO STOP PRETENDING TO BE ANYONE OTHER THAN WHO YOU TRULY ARE.
ORIGINAL IS MUCH MORE INTERESTING THAN IMITATION, DON’T YOU THINK?
i believe in:
…dreams and happy endings, possibilities, solutions, creativity, authenticity, and beauty. just to name a few…
i’m not about:
…settling for less than what you want; the newest or fastest; imitation; letting fear run the show.
you can find me:
…writing at my desk; dreaming up new offers; in a comfy chair with a good book; baking from scratch.
daily rituals:
…rising early; a cup of tea; Simple Abundance; writing and musing; morning walks; connecting with friends.
What my Clients Say
“Paula is just a godsend. She truly cares about your development and success in life. She is a wonderful coach who has touched my life. All will benefit from Paula’s coaching and insight.”
michelle
“Time spent with Paula brought an energy to my spirit I was unable to harness alone. I shared what I’d learned with my mom. Months later, she told me how happy she and my dad were. Coaching was invaluable to me and renewed the spirit of my loved ones. ”
Dolly
“Paula came into my life during a time of chaos and confusion. So many choices and questions. Paula helped me organize my thoughts and get really clear about what I needed and what the right decision was for me!”
gina
What I Believe
The Values That create true contentment & authentic style
beauty is everything
We see it. We feel it. we create it. It nourishes us. It connects us. Beauty isn’t always about the grand gestures. It’s more likely to be found in the everyday. Experiencing more of that can transform your life. I can help you with that.
good. better. best. not perfect.
Perfectionism is a subtle form of self-abuse. It will stop you in your tracks. Derail your dreams. Steal your joy. And it’s exhausting. I help you give yourself the gift of acceptance and forgiveness. Delight in your imperfectly perfect, beautiful self.
your life is like a house
And like a house, having good foundations and structures make living there a joy. It should have good flow, lots of light, and be beautiful. I’ll help you design a life that feels like home, a reflection of what’s true for you and what you love.
it’s never too late
You may feel fearful, uncertain, or that you lack resources to embark on a life (re)design project. But I’m here to tell you, your dreams and desires are meant for you. Everything you want wants you back. I’ll guide you with encouragement, in a gentle, firm way, cheering you on as you create your authentic style.
Qualifications
What Qualifies Me to Coach You
Years of hands-on experience, formal training, and real results for real clients.
training
Certified Life Coach
Trained at the Life On Purpose Institute and Certified with the Coaching From Spirit Institute, as well as pursuing additional trainings through the years to deepen my knowledge and expand my skillset.
experience
Through the Years
Life has been an exacting teacher, and I have been a star student. The good, the not-so-good, and the catastrophic. . . they have all honed the values, beliefs, and expertise that I bring to my work and find useful in creating true contentment and authentic style.
results
Changed Lives
What you can expect from working with me. And more. Discovering how to love and forgive yourself. Reconciling with what is and sometimes with what never will be. Living the Real Life you long for rather than the shadowy imitation you’ve been settling for. Healing your heart and finding your way home to your beautiful life.
“Jo, you have so many extraordinary gifts. how do you expect to lead an ordinary life?”
– Marmee to Jo in Little Women
Currently
reading | agatha christie |
drinking | a cup of tea |
watching | britbox & acorntv, of course! |
making | iced lemon tea cake |
writing | the novel I’ve been neglecting |
my favorite things
English country house living. Stacks of books, overstuffed furniture, artwork on the walls, carpets on the floors, French doors opening to a terrace and gardens beyond.
Vintage home collectibles. Pressed glass, teapots, dishes, home decor, so much to love!
Chocolate chip cookies!
Homemade, of course!
British mysteries. Agatha Christie is my go to. And I have several other favorites! Ask me!
A Bookstore! I can wander for hours. There is no such thing as too many books..
The garden. A flower garden, a walled garden, a kitchen garden, I’ll have them all! Even if the garden is just pots on the patio, it is enough.
This or That
where I stand on the super important stuff. . .
coffee | tea |
town | country |
early bird | night owl |
crafts | garden |
popcorn | chocolate |
cake | candy |
chardonnay | syrah |
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25 Ways to Make Everyday More Beautiful
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Let’s start designing a life you’ll love.
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