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Let’s Create Something Beautiful Together
Imagine a life where you pursue the things you’re interested in, boldly seek your own adventures, take the class, start the business, write the book, go on the trip. Imagine a life that’s the original design it was intended to be, rather than the shadowy imitation you’ve been settling for.
Are you ready? Let’s do this.
real talk
Feeling like your life isn’t quite what you’d like? Do you long for something more? Are you plagued by the coulda, woulda, shouldas?
I’ve been advising and guiding smart, thoughtful women just like you since 2007; women who are craving more from their life, days filled with spaciousness, beauty, and creative expression.
But sometimes you second guess yourself about whether or not you’re really meant to have what you want, and that can feel discouraging, and disheartening.
THE BEST NEWS? when it comes to designing your life, YOU DON’T HAVE TO GO IT ALONE IF YOU DON’T WANT TO.
Feel like you want to make changes, but. . .
>you’re afraid
…it’s too late
…it won’t work out
…you’ll fail
>you’re uncertain
…you’re probably too old anyway
…you don’t have what it takes, right?
…you can’t possibly really have All. The. Things.
>you’ll never find enough
…time
…energy – you often feel worn to a frazzle
…resources
if you can relate to any of this, take heart.
I decided, then & there, I wasn’t going to settle for an unlived life any longer
In November, 2018, my town burned down. Loss offered me a gift I decided to take.
It was at that moment, after years of pretending to be anyone other than who I truly was, of doing work that only partly satisfied me, and keeping a lid on my creativity, that I decided I couldn’t wait any longer to have the kind of life I’d always imagined. Full stop.
My life didn’t transform overnight. In fact, the next few years brought more challenges, more grief, more transitions. It’s been a journey, that’s for sure, but one that’s been worth it. And one I’m still on.
I don’t have all the answers, but what I’ve come to know for sure is that when you trust your heart and your desires, the life you create can be better than your dreams.
creating a life you really love doesn’t require a tragedy. it does, though, require saying ‘yes’.
Ingredients For A Life You’ll Love
YOU LEARN TO LOVE & TRUST YOURSELF
Trusting yourself is part of being sovereign in your life. That’s how you claim what’s true for you. When you come back to what you know is true, the clues and essence of your authenticity are there, in your beginnings.
YOU FORGIVE YOURSELF & RECONCILE WITH WHAT IS
The life you’ve lived until now is often not at all what you thought it would be. Regrets can become recriminations. When you’re able to forgive yourself, and reconcile with the past, the way opens up for creating a beautiful life.
YOU’RE GUIDED BY YOUR DESIRES & GO AFTER YOUR DREAMS
Your desires and dreams are unique to you. They are life’s little breadcrumbs. Did you know that everything you want wants you back? Always follow your heart. It won’t mislead you.
your life is like a house
And just like a house, the life you really want may just need a little redecoration. Or you might feel it’s going to take some renovation to really get the look and style you’re after. Once in a while, there’s nothing for it. A full on tear down and build it up again is the only way to achieve that house of true belonging that claims your heart.
Just like a house, your life should have good flow, lots of light, be beautiful, have a structure and infrastructure that makes living there a joy.
It should be a reflection of what’s true for you and what you love. It should be a safe place where you can take refuge from the world, and a place where you can cultivate your dreams.
Wouldn’t you love to have a life where who you are, what you do, and how you live are the most authentic version of You?
if a guiding hand would help you get there,
then I’d love to work with you.
check out the options below. . .
Decide which feels right for you.
And remember, your beautiful, one of a kind life is waiting. . .
Discover What’s Possible
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Personal Advisor & Guide
Areas of Expertise
01. Self-Discovery
Getting to know ourselves is essential to a well-lived life. Discovering how to love & forgive yourself, getting reacquainted with your values, beliefs, & priorities; it’s all part of getting in touch with your authentic self. This is not about fixing you, or developing you. I’ll help you step back from the culture of personal development and give yourself the gift of acceptance. Delight in your imperfectly perfect, beautiful self.
02. Mindset & Beliefs
How we think about ourselves and our place in the world has a lot to do with how we experience life. What used to work may no longer be adequate. I can intuitively sense what’s running the show behind the scenes. If that’s not working anymore, then I’ll help you gently and gracefully make the updates that feel more like who you are now versus who you used to be.
03. Big Transitions
Transitions are the space between what was and what will be. They can be brief, like a doorway, or like a long passageway, taking many steps to cross. I think that’s what life’s big transitions feel like – a long, sometimes dark passageway. I can help you navigate as you go. I’ll give you the tools, resources and support that can help you turn your big transition into powerful transformation.
04. Organization & Projects
Having an organized life means that Harmony And Order have pride of place, and Beauty can gain admittance. It doesn’t mean getting rid of everything – unless you want to. I’ll help you create systems and strategies for your life and home that are custom designed for who you are.
Have a project you’ve been putting off? Project planning and organizing are two of my superpowers!
05. Home Styling & Design
It’s possible to create rooms that reflect your original style, to love the way your home looks and feels. Reimagine how to use what you have in fun new ways. Learn to trust your instincts, and know that “buy what you love” is always a good idea. Styling, designing, and organizing your home is all about the practical and the useful.
I can help you create cozy interiors for beautiful living, filled with all the things you love. The rooms you inhabit should feel like home in the same way your life should feel like home.
here are some ways We can Work Together
Services Designed for Where You Are Right Now
Whether your life is in need of a little refresh or more like a renovation, there’s a path for you. Check out the options below. Decide which feels right. Together we’ll design a life for you that feels like home.
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Personal Advising
Deep, personalized advice and guidance for women who want a pathfinder and heart healer to guide them forward. Customized design that starts with a solid foundation, pulls together what’s worth building on, and provides the direction and gentle encouragement you need to go forward.
Community & Connection
The Women’s Wisdom Circle
Join a group of like-hearted, like-minded women for monthly get togethers, discussions, real time advising, and the power of collective wisdom and sisterhood. Share a cuppa and a slice of cake as we gather around the virtual kitchen table.
Intensive & Focused
VIP Life Design Day
A focused one-day creative intensive where we dive deep into a special project or goal, or can go wide and create the blueprint for your life (re)design. We clear out what’s not needed or working anymore and break through what’s been stopping you from moving forward. You leave with a clear, actionable plan ready for implementation.
Client Love
Real Results from Real Women
“You are a master coach who breathed life into me. It’s true, your voice and words are life forming for those who are “stuck”! I’m able to stand and live in my own space and truly live my Real Life!”
loranda
“Paula was inspiring, loving, and supportive, gentle and direct. I’ve had the courage to look at myself and newfound strength to face my fears. I know this is because of her.”
debbie
“I cannot tell you how much your focused, caring, healing coaching has done for me. You have a way of getting to the heart of the matter in an easy, relaxed manner, drawing out issues and concerns that otherwise would have stayed buried and kept me “stuck”. You really are a healer, and I appreciate your gift so much.”
carole
“Feeling grateful for some juicy good moments with Paula today. WOW. I feel slightly like I was called out, split open and put back together again in a new configuration. Some parts got rearranged. Some stuff got dropped. All lovely, easy, and gentle. No trauma. New phase of alignment!”
claire
Free Resources
Start Here — These Are On Me
Not ready to invest yet? Start with these free resources and get a feel for how I teach. No strings attached.
free Digital Download
The Weekend Guide to Gorgeous Gallery Walls
Ever wish you could have gallery walls like the ones you see in your favorite lifestyle magazines? With these tips and best practices, you’ll be able to put together your wall decor in ways you never imagined!
free Digital Download
25 Ways To Make Everyday More Beautiful
The desire for beauty is why we seek the lovely view, the well-decorated house, the lush garden. Here are 25 ideas to inspire you to make beauty a part of your everyday life.
free Digital Download
The “I Am” Exercise
Self-discovery through the medium of poetry. Using this fun and imaginative exercise, you’ll meet yourself in a whole new way!
Courses & Resources
Learn at Your Own Pace
Not quite ready for personal advising? My self-paced courses and digital shop give you resources you can work through on your own timeline.
Ready to Begin? is that a yes?
A Beautiful Life You’ll Love Starts Here
You don’t have to figure it out alone. Let’s work together to design the life you’ve been imagining.
